Tuesday 27 December 2016

Blind Herd Behaviour & Standing Alone

Strangely we live in the society where herd behaviour is being forced upon us. Before moving further let me explain you why Herd behaviour describes how individuals in a group can act collectively without centralized direction. The term can refer to the behaviour of animals in herds, packs, bird flocks, fish schools and so on,. We are even scared to be different from our pack since we will not be entertained so much by other pack. sometimes its important to maintain the herd behaviour since we want the decorum in the society to be maintained. Some basic essence needs to be there in the society for remaining free from crime and basic things to progress in right manner. But somewhere we have lost the individuality. We have stopped speaking our minds to confirm to the herd behaviour. Do we know our choices ? Let me think we study either of 1) Doctor 2) Law 3) Engineering. For higher studies either it can be law. Rest if kids don't follow this category they will be called useless even if they have potential to be multi millionaire but somebody rightly said intellectuals can never be understood by common people but they will have their own insecurities to bring you down. During the group forming stages you will also understand that during 5 stages of group formation of Forming, ,Storming, Norming , Performing and Adjourning. People who don't follow the norm of the group are left alone and can't go further in the performing stage. So its just an innate need of the people to form the herd and those who are not they will try to align them by name saying or ignoring such people to weaken them by their mind. But do people who have an opinion of their own would be bothered by such behaviour. If yes, then they will part of herd. And there are instances where Herd have become the mob and shown the episodes of the humans in demonstrations, riots and general strikes. The concept of the mob was first identified by French psychologists Gabriel Tarde and Gustave Le Bon. There have been instances where crowd which has  gather on behalf of a grievance can involve herding behavior that turns violent, particularly when confronted by an opposing ethnic or racial group. The Los Angeles riots of 1992, New York Draft Riots are some of the Mob behaviour infamous in US. Gujarat riots in 1969, 2002 are some of the examples of the same. So, if I have to describe whether herd behaviour is good or not. I will always say it will be nice if the mob behaviour will align with the righteous path. If its not the righteous path , please become the leader  and have strength in the vocal cord to put forward your point. Because somewhere today only I read to avoid unnecessary emotional drama in your life when you will be fighting against the herd mind-set be prepared to Become BAD once if staying GOOD always is not helping you. When I said bad , I meant people will start calling you bad for even the righteous behaviour.

So be part of herd till you are on righteous path for your financial, physical and emotional well being else enjoy the journey where you be name called as BAD by the mob :-P

Monday 15 February 2016

God sent His Angel to brighten my life





I met you at a time when only darkness was surrounding me

I met you at a time when circumstances made us lose faith in Almighty

I met you at a time when God was forgotten by folks around me

 

You were the sparkling light in that darkness

You spread the positive energy to confiscate pessimism

I was spellbound by the way you honed my passion

 

Life became another celebration amidst all crisis

Love for life was the only energy which surrounded us

Optimism and Smile never faded from our life

 

Your presence changed me for better

Your being flourished the child in me

Your company made me have only one passion now i.e. life

 

I kept thanking my stars for your existence

I kept looking for sunrise to meet you

I kept waiting for moonlight to hear your heart out

 

We became lover from just acquaintance in few months

With Some twist in our destiny

We became strangers from diehard aficionados’ in a second

 

Our parts may not cross again

But Forevermore, I will carry the your love in my heart

I will forever love life

 

Thanks for being my Angel when God was forgotten

Thanks for making me forevermore love life

Thanks for polishing only truly passion life

 

 

Monday 18 January 2016

Sunshine of my smile

You are shine of my smile
Your every breath is mine
You are the shrine I belong
You are chine of our world
You love is red wine
You presence redefine my life

I hate any grapevine surrounding us
I hate every tagline every swine gives us
I hate whining around us
I hate every vine confining us

With every knock you are my guideline
With you I am on cloud nine
Bottom line is you are my lifeline
You are shine of my smile

Thursday 14 January 2016

Black Coffee with pinch of Salt

Black Coffee fad has risen expediently like rock music with the beer in hand to sound cool. Black coffee is like latest Dilwale movie kind of romance where you don’t feel any depth in emotions. People spend time because dating is in fashion. People of my generation will say wtf? We have innate sense that beyond a point we can’t even abuse. But whom are we talking about? Generation of instant gratification is only focussed on anything that seems cool be it about boozing around or relationship status. How does your relationship status define you but how many of can get to know that if you haven’t seen what the real relationship should be? Imagine Cady is back to USA after her African safari trip to be surrounded by plastics she treats everybody as friends. Only to be finding in the end that they were having snake venom ready to bite her. Why plastics allowed her to be around them because they were insecure and Cady take her place. Just are the relationship Black coffee has seen and considered going out as relationship. I call them black coffee because coffee is the most liberating thing which can help you to survive lot of diseases like dementia but people without researching go for black coffee in excess and end up with acidity and sometimes early death. Anytime you can’t handle anything and take it without implications of it, you act like a Black Coffee vinyl. Be it time with your alone self. Love will always be in fashion but never dating, dating is just means to find love but time pass affairs are not. When you learn to find balance in life within yourself you will attract the right kind of coffee with which you can enhance longevity. I am not against coffee drinking but only after knowing what balanced quantity is and how to be taken.  Like love, love coffee as fresh breath of air which just simulates the creativity in soul. If you are drinking black coffee take it pinch of salt and at your own risk because accidents at bad seat does more harm.

Wednesday 13 January 2016

I saw you standing near me I kept walking the upland dear
I remembered all the things you said to me,I kept striding with false pride all over me
I wanted to wish you dear, But feared that you will trash me
I Know you will never realize how much I loved you, Forever you will be mine beloved
I will always idealize your viewpoint even though I wanted to critize you

I felt so fragile , you dealt it with agile mind
I was toddling against the wind, you were blinded with unkind gal


After so long I met you bearing the pain
Once again we became friends mending our past
I wanted to embrace the lonely soul only to be disgraced by apathetic attitude

Today I saw you once again smiling with your friend , I was piling myself with repetent
I remembered all the things you said to me,I kept striding with false pride all over me
I was wishing you only be trashed by you
I Know you will never realize how much I loved you, Forever you will be mine beloved