Monetization with new definition

I have always believed that all things we do are somewhere co-related in one way or another. Writing a blog on two disparate themes and diverging it into one. This resembled conveying all my emotions through just the song titles. While studying the macroeconomics concept idea of this blog struck in my mind. So one part of my brain was registering how the business and monetary cycle works and how alteration in repo rate can revolutionize the whole economy. Other part of mind was absorbing the relationship issues due credit goes to my classmate. Relationships work on a Philips Curve and follow an inverse relationship between the rate of society stiffness and the rate of break ups. 

Globalization and Strong Communication System are part of the monetary and fiscal policies followed by the Government to lower the unemployment and cultural openness in terms of relationships. Initially like short-run Philips curve number of relationships leading to marriages was increasing with society relaxation but when we see the bigger picture as more and more cultural repose has taken place the more and more marriages go through the turmoil and divorcees. Is it so simple to define the relationships? One parameter leads to another. If it was so simple why we are facing so many issues in that area?  Relationships like macroeconomics is complex where Central Bank can apply few monetary policies trying to control the money for the banks but whether it will lead to liquidation in the economy or not, Central bank cannot be sure. Fiscal policies are even not created by the Central bank but Government use to direct the aggregate demand in the economy. Although relationship on the surface may involve only two people but there are other driving force in partnership especially in Indian Context involvement of the family, situation also have a huge impact on the people. Couple having the driving seat may be driving the car of their alliance on the guidance provided by their parents. It’s a like Tic-O-Tic game who will win the game you never know because association are run by 4 experienced players not the 2 people who are in love.

Bodyguard singing Dhunki in this Mausam on Sadda haq

When this mango person (I) had lost hope from today’s music to appease her soul, her rockstar spirit just wanted to sing Sadda Haq Aithe Rakh. After hearing all the mango songs I just wanted to scream “tera dar,tera pyaar ,teri waah,tu hi rakh,rakh sale” This rage might have entered into a vicious circle if not Dhunki ,apt to its name – magical spell was all around me in another vicious circle. Next I found my love for the music and plethora of emotions I was going through beautifully articulated in lines “Teri Meri Prem Kahani”. Hymning the lines “katiya karoon” and I fancy that this elusive feeling never ends . When you keep on walking chanting “Isq Risk”, you just want to eliminate “Ik Tu Hi Tu Hi” from your darkest dream. I crave my mind to tune to “Koi dil bekaabu kar gaya aur ishqa dil mein bhar gaya aankhon aankhon mein wo laakhon gallan kar gaya oye o rabba main to mar gaya oye shaidai mujhe kar gaya kar gaya oye”and this channel is never atuned. Longing for the euphoria where I know the without music I can say “Pooore se zara sa kam hain Pooore se zara sa kam hain tera mera hona to hai tere mere hone se
tu fiza hamari hum mausam hain tu nadi hai kinara tera hum hain haan dhara tera hum hain bin tere hum to poore se zara sa kam hain”

Nature - Best Things in Life are Free

I have always thought I would write this article at MDI on the bench watching people play football and greenery all around. Few days back I was sitting at the same place having conversation with a friend how after so much chaos and noise just about still this place is so peaceful and calm. The logic I got was that the trees are surrounding the place and green color has soothing effect.  At that time I found myself saying “The Best Things in Life are Free”. Have you ever seen smile on a child’s face because of droplet falling on his face. I am not sure about others but atleast weather has put smile on my face every now and then. God has created Mother Nature with so much effort and given this gift in our hands. All required things at right places and right time. If you don’t agree with me, see how watermelon are seen in the deserts only where it is required. Have somebody wondered why Muslim gals are so beautiful? The way their society is, it is vital for them to be beautiful. Whenever the Deity has created anything it has some purpose behind it, sometimes we understand it and sometimes we don’t. When we have such a beautiful gift why do we keep playing and fiddling with it? We are disrupting the natural balance, so when see so much mayhem around us why we keep cribbing? Why we blame others? Why don’t we take it as our responsibility and start doing our bit?  While I have left all of you with the probing question to answer for yourself, let me go on my favorite task of shopping. My friend has put in lot of confusion now whether to buy a green color dress for my birthday or pink one which I have liked? Now this is the question I need to sort out before my next birthday and let me begin my search from now on

Fuzzy is a fuzzy word

When I first heard the line “Zero is not Zero. One is not one. Zero has more zeroness in it. One has more oneness in it”, it seemed fuzzy to me and something related to whims and fancies. It allied with my thoughts that everything in life is neither white nor black it’s always grey. Shades of grey determine whether we will call it white or black. Now lets’ put it this in simple manner  statement “Today is a rainy day” will be true 100% when it rains all day long, 80% true when it drizzles , 50% true its cloudy and might rain and 0% true if you see sun and no clouds outside. So, any statement that determines more than simple true and false values. Statement represented by the degrees of truthfulness and falsehood uses the fuzzy logic. Imagine instead of digital 1 and 0 we have a sinusoidal curve where 0.7 would be described as 1 as it has more oneness in it while 0.3 would be described as it has more zeroness in it. Now if it is the case how our digital electronics worked when the current would come in the degrees of 1 or 0 rather than absolute terms? Such thoughts only pound us to think where we are today and where we want to go? Are we evolving or are we following the sinusoid? But then are not we internally all fuzzy? If not we wouldn’t have got the famous idiom “Is the glass half empty or half full?” We all are subjective in our thoughts. When we all believe in grey how we can like or posses anything which exists in either white or black? This was bound to come. Fuzzy logic can be used any where we want to depict the connection between two things without giving the complete specification of what the connection is? Fuzzy is such a fuzzy word that describing it is creating fuzziness in itself. Fuzzy concepts are so because learning or the growth of understanding involves a transition from a vague awareness, which cannot orient behavior greatly, to clearer insight, which can orient behavior. Whenever we hear these words Zero is not Zero. One is not one. Zero has more zeroness in it. One has more oneness in it” then be sure we are on the path of learning curve and moving forward to understand things.

If You Love,Love it openly but to carry it requires Understanding,Kindness and Love

I wasn’t writing any blog since I wasn’t feeling passionate about anything. So, what better way to connect with my feeling than the feeling of love? When I reached my office received a mail with Monday Motivator and filled stories of love. So, I took this as God’s signal and started penning down all my emotions. I was reading a Zen Stories and loved 2 stories and would be quoting them. These stories are so beautiful that beauty of any relationship can be understood by them. I have seen people fighting with each other when they find their partner have taken them for granted. People need some compassion and kindness for each other. Same is understood by the story given below


“There was an old woman in China who had supported a monk for over twenty years. She had built a little hut for him and fed him while he was meditating. Finally she wondered just what progress he had made in all this time.
To find out, she obtained the help of a girl rich in desire. “Go and embrace him,” she told her, “and then ask him suddenly: ‘What now?’”
The girl called upon the monk and without much ado caressed him, asking him what he was going to do about it.
“An old tree grows on a cold rock in winter,” replied the monk somewhat poetically. “Nowhere is there any warmth.”
The girl returned and related what he had said.
“To think I fed that fellow for twenty years!” exclaimed the old woman in anger. “He showed no consideration for your need, no disposition to explain your condition. He need not have responded to passion, but at least he could have evidenced some compassion;”
She at once went to the hut of the monk and burned it down.”
To sustain love we kindness else when people don't find that in a relationship they move out of it. Love starts with a walking on the moon feeling ends with walking on the needle bed if emotions are not reciprocated.


While other story tells us about the need of express love, this reminds me of incident when a friend of mine who really loved a guy and was waiting for the guy to profess his love towards her, couldn’t accept the proposal because he proposed through phone.She found the act coward.As per her if you love somebody be ready to accept it by looking into eyes else no point even accepting it.According to her Love is such an emotion which should be so strong to create madness in you else it is not love.
Story goes as below
“Twenty monks and one nun, who was named Eshun, were practicing meditation with a certain Zen master.
Eshun was very pretty even though her head was shaved and her dress plain. Several monks secretly fell in love with her. One of them wrote her a love letter, insisting upon a private meeting.
Eshun did not reply. The following day the master gave a lecture to the group, and when it was over, Eshun arose. Addressing the one who had written to her, she said: “If you really love me so much, come and embrace me now.”


Love must some reason to have madness in it else how we justify some much written on it. I feel incompetent to express it in few lines. As more and more I try to express love in more logical sense it loses charm. It is that gut feel where people they know they can live with that person forever. But once you are in love what next? To carry a relationship you need to have understanding and love both else it will break down. Understanding helps us see the truth, and love causes us to act on it. Understanding helps us to see that for all our superficial differences, we are of the same essence. Without understanding, it is all too easy to be judgmental. We see someone acting selfishly, and a barrage of anger and criticism arises within us. Understanding helps us see past their behavior and to recognize that this seemingly selfish person seeks love and happiness, just the same as we do. Rather than judging that person as “bad”, we view their selfishness as ignorance, and we feel compassion for them. Understanding makes us more accepting, less judgmental, and thereby removes some of the impediments to love. Love is what makes us willing to reach out and touch them, to put ourselves in their shoes. Love is what stops us from rejecting or ignoring those whom we may otherwise recoil from. Whereas understanding is helpful for love, love is absolutely essential for true understanding. The love comes before the understanding. They each boost each other and one is incomplete without the other. Without understanding, there is a danger that the love will go away. Understanding is what maintains the love and helps it expand to encompass all. Yet without love, the understanding is empty.


I hope with this blog all the people who want to fall in love or already are, would be able to create a beautiful relationship with love and understand both like a recipe doesn’t get its flavor till all ingredients and spices are put in it.Love never ends but requires some kindness and understanding.

Silence is discomfort for many ........I had to break it !!!!

Writing another blog is a necessity for me right now else I would lose my flow especially after how last month has shaken me internally. I know it is not upto the mark but Silence has given more discomfort to me this time that I have to break it. I was feeling as if life is a delusion and walking day and night disconnected with things going around. Darkness or Light meant same to me. Zen Master’s lines were running in my mind that “Zen Master went to sleep and saw he has turned into sheep. When he woke up and went to his pupil and narrated the story to them. He raised a question in front of them “whether he turning to sheep was reality or sheep turned into Zen Master is a reality???” Reality seemed deep but this phase has only made me understand “essence of mind is not born, so it will never die. It is not an existence, which is perishable. It is not emptiness, which is a mere void. It has neither colour nor form. It enjoys no pleasures and suffers no pains.” Walking with this lines further I wish I live forever in mind of people for beauty I create in their life with the mind I possess.

Life and Death are Inevitable but valuing that person is in our hands

Life is the hardest teacher, it gives the test first and the lesson after. This is how I am feeling right now. I am overwhelmed with so many emotions and didn’t know how to let it go. But some part inside me said lets capture this moment for my whole life and what better way than penning it down. I want my Nanimaa(Grand Maa) from wherever you are seeing to forgive me for taking some bits our relationship in public. Today my Grandma passed away and I felt as if one of the pillars holding me has fallen apart. I felt something inside me has died and I don’t know how long I can hold this building together. When I heard the news I went through all the emotions described below

“maine aapne har aansooo hassi me chupae hai.... pta nhi khuda ki kya marzi thi aisha sahlab aaya or hum beeche sadak me aapna rona hi nah rok pae.....Nanimaa these lines are dedicated to u .... u were the one who imbibed in me to keep faith in God.... Now I doubt those lines ....I needed u most in this phase of my life when he(GOD) has taken you away from me....”

All these few hours have made me revisit all the moments I have spent with her and how she has shaped my life. All the people who have known me as hard person and who know I don’t cry much like gals etc is partly due to her who has shown me the internal strength of a woman. She was one who imparted the fighting spirit in each of my cousins. On one hand she used to make us understand what’s right and what’s wrong and on another hand she was most fun loving person I have ever seen of her genera. She used to be part of almost all our pranks but still maintained a discipline in us. My cousin brother used to tease her to see her million dollar smile by calling her Sexy after release of Kuch Kuch Hota Hai. Imagine that my very cousin has a birthday today. Today all those years when we would wait for our breaks to meet her and have best of the time seems like a distant dream.Writing each word makes me weep but I would try to hold my tears here only as she has always said “Always carry yourself with dignity and grace”. Maintaining that head held high I can only say I truly love you nanu… you were my jaan . As in my childhood today also I am fighting with everyone to be with you, like old days please convince everybody that I can stay with you for few more days.

If anyone of you has any person whom you value a lot please express your love as soon as possible before its late and you regret it later and you have say the line "Life is the hardest teacher, it gives the test first and the lesson after". Today I find living in this reality tough and want to break all the worldly web apart just to be with her.